is there any way to reduce ironchew's sentence? a week off is maybe a bit hardcore, perhaps just a stern reprimand would've been better?
I don't think a warning or shorter ban period would've helped. With any luck, a week off will be enough to stick in his memory.
EDIT: I know Ironchew is inflammatory, but Guizonode did take a potshot at him first. I think it's unfair that someone can call Ironchew out with zero repercussion, and then Ironchew gets a week ban for crossing a line with his retort.
I'm not sure I follow your reasoning. Do you think I was overly harsh on Ironchew because he was provoked, or overly lenient on guizonde, or what?
I banned Ironchew because he crossed a pretty major line. I don't think what guizonde did was at all exceptional by forum standards.
Fair question, and I will concede that there is some gray area on which people may disagree. But my view is that there are certain members who can get away with certain behaviors and other members who cannot. For better or worse, Ironchew fits into the latter category.
True, but complicated. "Getting away with things" includes both reactions from the general forum community and from the mod staff. There's not much I can do about the former, while the latter is under my responsibility and I try to make it as even-handed as possible. It's hard to be sure I'm not coloured by bias here, but I don't think I would have excused Ironchew's behaviour from anyone.
While Chew's dig at Guizonode was more personal than generic, Guizonode did provoke the insult by calling Ironchew an asshole with zero provocation. I feel it's one thing to call someone an asshole for making an asinine point, while arguing that point (e.g. "And you're being an asshole Sigma for saying that homeless people should be used as a cheap food substitute.") and another to sua sponte call someone an asshole (e.g., going into thread killer and saying "Sigma's an asshole.")
A valid point; most insults in this forum tend to happen in the context of an ongoing debate, and guizonde's was not. But I discounted the severity of his comment because he highlighted it in blue, which he typically does to show he's not being serious, and I have reason to believe Ironchew knows that. If that wasn't the case, or the context was otherwise different, I would have issued a warning to keep it in F&B, but I don't think guizonde's intention was to make a personal attack.
Note: Sigma is not an asshole, he just has thick enough skin that I can use him to help illustrate my point.
Entirely off-topic, but I'm currently starting to transition and I prefer "she" or "they" pronouns (no reason you should've known, just thought I'd take the opportunity to mention it).
ETA: And thank you for asking the question. One thing about me is that, for better or worse, I will speak my mind even if it is unpopular. I think it shows maturity that you are willing to calmly address the issue without taking offense.
No problem.
(I have thoughts on the state of the evidence regarding God, but I'm too tired to post them here)