i'm asking "askold the mod". am i allowed to make disparaging comments about their looks, wives, and general sexuality (specifically, lack of)?
because only the most sexually frustrated inbred would actually bomb a place from not getting laid.
In your rush to disparage people you don't like by lumping them in with other members of the outgroup such as those unfortunate enough to be physically unattractive or sexually deviant, you might have missed the point of institutional sexism.
The people that perpetuate this are well-respected members of their community. Often times society is at fault for reinforcing a poisonous culture, not just a few bad apples acting out.
i can get that my comment was coarse, but i simply don't get what you're getting at. what does institutional sexism have to do with my comment? is it sexist to say "somebody needs to get laid"? also, i didn't call them sexually deviant (that's the problem, if they were a bit more open sexually, there might not be this kind of idiocy happening). besides, if the anti-choice are allowed to call women sluts for having a sex drive, i feel it's polite to respond in the same immature way, namely by devolving to the rhetoric of a seventh grader.
i think you're talking about moral conservatism in the second part, and in which case, yes, it is poisonous, and should be fought by making society evolve away from archaic modes of thought.