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Woah. Your masterful arguments, "she asked for it" and "what about the menz?", have totally convinced me that the situation is way more nuanced than I originally thought. And by more nuanced, I mean that the bitch deserved it and the dudebro, while a bit of a control freak, deserve to be hailed as a fucking hero for sticking to his guns. After all, can't we all agree that being
in the right about something absolves you from basic human decency towards those that have been proven "in the wrong"?
Okay, I'm tired of fucking around. I find it horrifying that most people here, on both sides of the "debate", think that putting excessively restrictive conditions on their relationship was the worst thing this guy did. When someone you know has been assaulted and calls you in a state of shock, unless they are some kind of mortal enemy, the exact status of your relationship with them should
not be the first thing that come to your mind. It takes a uncaring and supremely self-centered bastard to immediately shift the conversation away from the victim's immediate distress and towards their own petty grievances.
There is a distinction between hurting people by being inflexible and brutally honest, and kicking them while they're down. The scumbag didn't have to hide the fact that he considers their relationship to be over. Does it make it okay for him to go out of his way and force the subject on her, in place of offering her any kind of practical or even emotional support? Some people here seem to think so. Well, let's just say... that I disagree. That people who obsess about "being in the right", for the feeling of moral infallibility it procures towards people who aren't, disgust and frighten me. That this vindicative, judgemental, self-gratifying mentality is at the root of the very kind of evil this forum was once supposed to mock... and I guess we'll leave it at that.