So, in essence, you are arguing that International Men's day is needed because false rape allegations are common and amount to a huge problem for men, which the world needs to address.
I wouldn't say "common", but they are a serious problem, one that ought to be tackled. And I think IMD would be a big help in that regard.
I would like someone's opinion on this quote from Paragon that I bolded. The only request I make is that this someone not be Paragon and that this person support international men's day. The more opinions on this, the better.
Hi.
I don't think I've discussed support for IMD before, but yes, I do think there are problems that are unique to men that need addressing.
I don't think false rape accusations should be the forefront of that effort because, well, it's a fucking minefield. False accusations of any crime are a problem that need solving, and sure, false accusations of rape happen more to men than to women, because accusations of rape in general happen more to men than to women (if there is not true someone please correct me, I haven't checked the statistics any time recently). The problem is trying to solve this via awareness raising (which is what IMD does), because awareness raising doesn't get you better forensic techniques. What it can get you, best case scenario, is people being more aware of false accusations of rape and being less likely to believe future accusations, which of course just trades a decrease in the false positive rate for an increase in the false negative rate. That's not a social improvement, you're just changing victims.
There are things where awareness raising can help without harming other groups. For obvious reasons I tend to be concerned about enforced masculinity, a problem which definitely affects men (and people who aren't men but are perceived to be). Telling people "hey, don't be such an asshole against people who don't act manly, it doesn't hurt anyone" doesn't have the same tradeoff problems. (that's just an example, I don't mean to say "the only problems IMD should address are the ones that affect me, someone who is not a man!")
Awareness raising is not a neutral tool (it's often an
ineffective tool, but not always). False rape accusations is not the kind of subject where it can be used best, there is risk of being harmful on net if applied to that problem, and it detracts attention from other issues where the awareness raising helps more.