http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/can-t-touch-this--pregnant-mom-lawsuit-takes-on-belly-rubbing-211618835.htmlA representative from the Pennsylvania State Police tells Yahoo Shine that earlier this month, 57-year-old Richard J. Beishline visited his neighbor, a 30-year-old pregnant woman named Michelle Troutman in Frankfort, Pennsylvania. According to the police report, after giving Troutman a hug, Beishline said, “I just want to be friends” and rubbed her stomach. Troutman pushed him away, and he quickly left. She has since filed harassment charges against Beishline, and if he pleads guilty, he’ll pay a fine determined by a judge. If he pleads not guilty, both parties will have to testify in court.
I put this thread here since the article, as well as the comments, deal with the issue of consent and how it's viewed in society. Many people (though not all) seem to demand why she didn't just tell him to stop and just leave it at that, while not addressing the problem of people randomly and deliberately touching you without asking. It implies that consent is given by default and that you need to actively withdraw it, instead of the inverse.
For me, this kind of ties in with another problem I've thought about from time to time: the general attitude that if it's not causing pain, it's acceptable to touch without permission, and any negative reaction you get in response is "overreacting." After all, "it's not like it's actually hurting anyone, right?" The most prominent example I can think of is tickling, and how people think it's funny to do it even when told to stop (especially if told to stop) and that those who get angry need to "lighten up."
I know some people on this forum have been pregnant before. How do you feel about issues like these?
(And yes, I know the "I just want to be friends" line is weird and could imply something more was going on, but even if more info is revealed in the future, it doesn't change the issues brought up here)