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Offline dpareja

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Warning: POSSIBLY VERY TRIGGERING
« on: November 28, 2013, 10:37:39 pm »
Once again: warning, possibly very triggering. (Involves child abuse.)

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« Last Edit: November 29, 2013, 12:41:05 am by dpareja »
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It doesn't concern you, Sister, that kind of absolutist view of the universe? Right and wrong determined solely by a single all-knowing, all powerful being whose judgment cannot be questioned and in whose name the most horrendous acts can be sanctioned without appeal?

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Being required by someone else’s religious beliefs to behave contrary to one’s sexual identity is degrading and disrespectful.

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Re: Warning: POSSIBLY VERY TRIGGERING
« Reply #1 on: November 29, 2013, 12:36:46 am »
You could have given a hint on WHY it is triggering. You know, so that people who click on it know if it is about the particular thing(s) that they have trauma of.

But yeah that was bad, horrible child abuse story behind the spoiler.
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Re: Warning: POSSIBLY VERY TRIGGERING
« Reply #2 on: November 29, 2013, 12:40:03 am »
You could have given a hint on WHY it is triggering. You know, so that people who click on it know if it is about the particular thing(s) that they have trauma of.

But yeah that was bad, horrible child abuse story behind the spoiler.

Yeah, sorry, but I felt it was possibly that triggering. I'll add something or other.
Quote from: Jordan Duram
It doesn't concern you, Sister, that kind of absolutist view of the universe? Right and wrong determined solely by a single all-knowing, all powerful being whose judgment cannot be questioned and in whose name the most horrendous acts can be sanctioned without appeal?

Quote from: Supreme Court of Canada
Being required by someone else’s religious beliefs to behave contrary to one’s sexual identity is degrading and disrespectful.

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Re: Warning: POSSIBLY VERY TRIGGERING
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2013, 02:12:42 am »
People who trigger on minimally-descriptive trigger warnings can be safely assumed to not be browsing the internet (or at least they shouldn't be and I wouldn't feel bad if the words "child abuse" triggered them). Context helps here.
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Re: Warning: POSSIBLY VERY TRIGGERING
« Reply #4 on: November 29, 2013, 03:48:30 am »
This is a difficult one.
We all hate child abuse, but legally speaking especially when divorce and custody battles are involved it is a lot of he says/ she says. For the most part is seems like everything was fine until they dropped the investigation into his apparent child molestation. I would be curious to know why exactly, especially since the investigation was done by both the police and child services. managing to convince both to drop the case seems a little unusual for me. Of course that could simply be because the only one really providing any evidence of the child molestation is the mother, and if she was discredited enough it would cause those to evaluate her evidence with much more skepticism.

The whole process of discrediting each other though, it pretty common in the brutally ugly world of custody battles and divorces. I can understand the police dropping the investigation to a degree. I wouldn't be surprised if parents used false stories of the other partner abusing the children to get custody quite regularly, so it must be hard for the police to really sort the liars from the people who actually have an abusive partner. Especially when the truthful incidence of abuse is quite low.

This is a pretty sad story though, but not all that different from the ones where rapists are allowed visitation rites towards their victims children.