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Re: "Revenge Porn" Outlawed in California
« Reply #30 on: August 29, 2013, 01:36:12 pm »
Yeah, I forgave my girlfriend for cheating on me with a guy for few months, while I knew about it from day one and she knew I didn't like it (admittedly, it also means she was never once faithful to him, and she was still doing more with me than him, so he really was still getting the short end of the stick). Since he turned out to be a psycho stalker, she's apologized and admits she really shouldn't have done that. To quote the ex-friend who tried to cause problems for me only for me to ruin his reputation further by playing on his past lies to make everyone think he was making shit up rather than revealing secrets, "Actions have consequences". Ahh, if only I had had a chance to quote that back to him. Oh well.
So let me get this straight, your girlfriend cheats on you, you knew full well it was happening, she knew that you knew, the only reason she didn't leave you for him is because he turned out to be a fuckwit, and yet you stayed with her with nary an objection?

Say, would you be willing to come over my house and lie outside my front door? I'm kind of in need of a new doormat, and you'd be absolutely perfect.

So because he's willing to work through problems with his girlfriend, instead of just dumping her at the first sign of trouble, he's a... doormat?

Fuck, I have my own problems with PHH, but not in this scenario.  I don't know what's got your panties in a twist again.
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Re: "Revenge Porn" Outlawed in California
« Reply #31 on: August 29, 2013, 01:39:19 pm »
So because he's willing to work through problems with his girlfriend, instead of just dumping her at the first sign of trouble, he's a... doormat?
It's more that he just let her continue until she decided that she didn't like the other guy with little to no objections. That hardly qualifies as "working through problems". Not to mention, cheating is hardly a mere "sign of trouble" by any stretch of the imagination.

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Re: "Revenge Porn" Outlawed in California
« Reply #32 on: August 29, 2013, 01:47:26 pm »
So because he's willing to work through problems with his girlfriend, instead of just dumping her at the first sign of trouble, he's a... doormat?
It's more that he just let her continue until she decided that she didn't like the other guy with little to no objections. That hardly qualifies as "working through problems". Not to mention, cheating is hardly a mere "sign of trouble" by any stretch of the imagination.
Actually, I did object. However, considering she was never faithful to him for even a second, it wasn't exactly the worst thing in the world. And, she was honest with me the whole time. Additionally, I'll be honest, I do go very easy on her due to her issues (I've mentioned before, she's a paranoid schizophrenic, and has only in the last month gotten good about taking her meds, because she finally realized what would happen over time if she doesn't), but before this we had broken up several times beforehand. Since this happened, we haven't had any issues. If anything, it was what she needed to make sure she was right about being able to trust me and not be abandoned.
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Re: "Revenge Porn" Outlawed in California
« Reply #33 on: August 29, 2013, 08:00:45 pm »
I thought you guys have an open relationship? Or is it like, a "you can date other people as long as I approve of them" deal or what?
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Re: "Revenge Porn" Outlawed in California
« Reply #34 on: August 29, 2013, 11:18:37 pm »
I thought you guys have an open relationship? Or is it like, a "you can date other people as long as I approve of them" deal or what?
It's open sexually, and approve on romantic. I knew he was, well, not a good idea, and therefore was not cool with it. In the end, I was proven right. Right now, it's me + her and her + her gf, but is perfectly fine there, because the gf is actually a good person, and they've been friends for years. Additionally, we all know about it and me and the gf are friends.
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