Wow Joey really took on the challenge of becoming one of the biggest cunts we've had on the forums in a while. Bravo sir.
Anyway, this all is why you don't freak out while challenging someone. Stay calm, do what you need to do, and don't let them get to you. If you do, they'll make fun of you. Particularly with a group with as much free time on their hands as MRAs, there's like two actual concerns for the subject and some of these idiots dedicate their lives to it. If you make them look bad they'll try to bury it as fast as possible.
Kinda like dealing with a pack of wild animals now that I think about it.
That all said, people do need to get their panties out of a twist when something could potentially offend them if taken in a very specific way that may or may not have been what the poster intended. But Joey here was just full blown cuntwad. There's a pretty wide range of difference between the two. Kinda like how she could have responded to them and how she did, though she at least had some level of justification.