Frankly nothing good could come of a thread that implicitly states that anyone who disagrees with Affirmative Action is stupid and a hater of Martin Luther King, Jr.
Zachski, I'm going to have to politely disagree with you here. I think that Art asking Fred to answer his question and clarify his answer further is perfectly warranted. Art has already shown that Fred did not really address his question.
As for the "bullying" charge, If Fred wanted to make clear that he planned to answer Art's question later when he could think about it more, he could have simply said so. Instead, he avoided the question while answering other questions instead, including my own. When a person gets reported to the mods for not answering a question, the typical result is not an instaban, but a polite reminder to answer the question or provide some other indication if they will or will not answer and why. Art himself was trying to remind Fred several times that he is obligated to at least address his question without resorting to the mods. At that point, nothing about Art's requests were harassment in any form. (I am not defending his later, more insulting posts towards you, however. That is rude, and it is harassment.)
Then we are going to have to continue to politely disagree. If he had said "Again, this is a direct question, and I would like you to address that", this is one thing, even if it wasn't as polite as I had put it, but to say "Answer this or I will report you to the mods" crossed the line and raised red flags for me.
He actually did just that, initially. The first time he reminded Fred to answer the question, he simply said that answering all direct questions addressed to you is in the rules. He did not say that he would immediately involve the mods, or attempt to get Fred banned. When Art did not have his question addressed
after that reminder,
then he brought up the mods.
And my point was that even if Art
did report Fred to the mods or even meant it as a threat, the actual consequences would be basically harmless. The mods we have right now on these FSTDT forums aren't like the ones over at CARM, who will ban you without warning for the most minor of offenses. In previous situations like this, the mods have simply come into a thread to remind the posters to calm down and answer the questions. Threats of the banhammer are not issued right away, they are a last resort. Even if Art had called the mods on Fred, it would not have had any consequences for Fred, provided that he answered the question, or gave some other indication that he did or did not plan to answer it.
In a situation where I am not answering someone else's question, for whatever reason, I would rather have that person (politely) cite the rules or the possibility of involving moderators to me, instead of alerting the mods immediately without even attempting to remind me first.
I still feel as though Fred's answer addressed the question and was not question dodging.
I don't mean to toot my own horn (
oh what am I saying, of course I do), but I am a person who prides herself on her reading comprehension ability, and even
I'm confused as to how Fred's response answered Art's question. If you've seen something in his response that I've missed, please point out where Fred
specifically addressed the questions Art posed.
Thank you for being reasonable about this, though.
Yes, you're welcome. Actually, my original response was full of all sorts of angry reactionary butthurt, but I only realized it when I came back from the dinner table. Then I rewrote the whole thing, and trimmed it down considerably. Funny what taking a break to chill out can do to your attitude.
EDIT: Trying not to double post.
The company is a privite one. I get that but lets agree that you can sue if the company outright says we take no blacks
If a private restaurant, for instance, outright refuses to hire or serve black people, and there are anti-discrimination laws in place that say it is a crime, then there is legal justification to sue them because we know beyond a reasonable doubt that their practices are based off of racism.
I do not agree with the restaurant on moral and financial grounds. Refusing to serve an entire group of people for bigoted reasons can hurt your business in the long run. It eliminates potential consumers, and not just from the group being discriminated against. It can also lead others to boycott your business if they disagree with its practices.
There are some situations where discrimination makes sense. If a Jewish deli sees a bunch of neo-Nazi skinheads walk in, the owners have reason to fear for their safety and the safety of their customers, and have every right to kick them out. And if I own a gay bar and Fred Phelps walks in, I have every right to throw him out into the streets on his bony ass.