Regardless of her awards, I've always found her somewhat wooden and withdrawn in quite a few of her roles. She's not terrible, and she has had a few good moments, but overall, her performances haven't really wowed me.
That said, it's difficult to argue that she isn't successful in her career, and none of us are in a position to decide whether or not she's happy.
As for the original image: They both look perfectly fine. It's possible that one or both of them is unhealthy, but neither of them is ugly by any stretch of the imagination.