Granted, for men and women alike, it's a good idea to know whose party you're going to, the people who'll be there, and the area and have some kind of exit strategy or buddy system in place if you feel uncomfortable and need to slip away--but that's just standard-issue 'avoid putting yourself in dangerous situations' advice that's quite sensible and coincidentally also doesn't put the blame for crimes on the victim. You can make really bad choices and put yourself in a very dangerous situation, but other people's actions are still not your FAULT.