Ironically, I actually consider Skyrim's gay options to be the best in the gaming community so far simply because the game's like
"Are they marriable? Okay, we're just going to completely ignore everyone's gender in this and play it as gender neutral as possible!"
Gotta say one thing about Nords, they may have a lot of racists, and they may be superstitious about magic (despite once being great with it) but they are pretty progressive about gender equality.