@What Is Wrong With Incels;
After the Elliot Rodger incident I saw a psychologist on I think it was MSNBC giving her opinion - there is a psychological disease people can become afflicted with if they have no affection or warmth received from anyone. And no, it has nothing to do with sex - it's a validation and presence thing. If people don't acquire human touch (as simple as a hand on their shoulder, holding hands), it severely messes with the individual's mind. Especially if they're 25 and younger, as most incels are. So the cause for the incel psychosis may well be the same we saw from Elliot Rodger - his parents gave him things, they threw gold and trinkets at him, cars and valuables. They gave him a life full of things but never people. And then wondered why his mind snapped like a twig in the rapids.
That sounds a little like bullshit. I never received validation or presence from anyone, at any point, and I never felt the urge to blame women for what are clearly my own failings. And I'm 36 as I write this, so....
I think it's got a heck of a lot to do with people thinking they have to live up to a social ideal to be worth anything. People get messages that, to be considered "normal" you have to be hot, be with someone hot and your wallet has to be fat. In TV land, cop shows, soaps etc for decades most people were white, straight, hot enough to melt cold steel and lived in houses worth at least a cool million. Working class people? "Married with Children's" pad was better than those of most working class people who watched it, "The Big Bang Theory" academics and students can all afford to live in apartments that look like that one apparently. When reality TV came in the same stereotypes were even more aggressively reinforced, movies? Even scary ones usually take place in mansions.
Ironically it isn't "feminism" or "SJWs" tormenting these people, it's our own consumerist culture that makes people feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to the role models that we see in mass media. When I read incel posts either from the old FSTDT site, WHTM or the Incel Tears subreddit these guys don't want to be with women per se, they don't even like them and that's being generous. They're resentful that they don't have a "hot" girlfriend and the respect that supposedly comes with it, more importantly that they didn't get one at the time they think they were "supposed" to have done. Like a whole lot of people they fell short of the upper middle class, sexually active, financially secure, good looking, confident and successful ideal that's sold as "normal."
So they're lashing out, because they want something that they know is impossible not because it's impossible for them to get laid. Most of them are at least average looking fellas who could if they put in the effort, but because their whole lives haven't played out like a Hollywood movie where they are granted the girl of their dreams at the time of their lives that would have validated their existence because they were one of those fantasy constructs. What's impossible for them is for them to have lived the "normal" life from birth that they feel they were owed because they live the life they have. It's a frustration they'll never fulfil because, if one of these dickheads ever actually convinced a traditionally "hot" looking woman to fall in love or at least fuck them, they'd still be pissed off that their whole life hadn't followed the script that they think it was supposed to which is possibly one reason why the nasty, dysfunctional little shits like to fantasise about enslaving and punishing women and girls. You can't "fix" retroactively the life you've lived so it's more like the one you wished you had but that's the only thing that would sate the thirsty bastards.