So I'm expected to feel guilty because I have a penis? Fuck that! I'll certainly help the cause of feminism, but I'll do it because it's the right thing to do, not as a form of restitution.
It's not about your fucking penis.
It's about what society has trained you and me to believe, simply because we have penises.
By the Allfather, will you just listen for a moment!?
Okay. I'm all ears.
It's about the roles we are expected to play.
It's about the attitudes we are trained to have.
It's about how the media treats us.
It's about the subconscious pulse of society.
It's about what our culture allows and disallows.
Simply because we have penises, and they don't.
It's men perpetuating this, and women perpetuating this because "we" tell them to.
That is why it's our responsibility. To tell men otherwise.
This is not just for women, either. It's for the human race, as a whole. Because feminism isn't just about women, it's about men, too, who are hurt by what other men have decided is masculine and what is feminine.
That is why it's our responsibility.
To create an environment where we don't need to think of women as having to be related to us for us to care. We should care just because they're human beings.
That is our responsibility.
You don't want women to have to be cautious around you, simply because you're a male. Then let's fight the environment that men have created so they don't have to.
Let me put it this way
In this country, it's safer for a woman to say that she already belongs to a man than for her to say that she's just not interested in somebody.
In this country, it's safer for a woman to give a fake phone number to someone rather than to refuse to give them her number at all.
This is not okay. And yet there are plenty of men out there who would defend a man's right to be angry to the point of violence with these women.
And there are plenty of men who would sympathize with the woman. And plenty of men who would fake sympathy to try to get into her good graces so they can have sex with her.
We live in a world where we teach men to be predators and teach women to be prey. And whether the two of us mean to or not, we contribute to that.