"Nice Guys" of OkCupid

[Witchyjoshy]

Eek. I've worn a hat since I was 19 and I'm 42.

When did it go from Ska and noir to rampaging douchenozzles of the mansplain?

It became the latter because of the former.

I say ignore it.  Anyone who would be prejudiced against you because of a simple hat doesn't deserve your time anyways.

[Shane for Wax]

Well, I'm disgusted.

[wrightway]

So women are turning him gay because he can't find his purity princess for true loves first kiss? Did I read that right?

[Auri-El]

Well, to someone who equates kissing with sex, anything can make sense.

[Shane for Wax]

So women are turning him gay because he can't find his purity princess for true loves first kiss? Did I read that right?

Basically. Not even Snow White was like this.

[gomer21xx]

Well, I'm disgusted.

I hate to break it to him, but I'm willing to bet that most women have had at least one kiss (outside of family) by the time they're out of high school.

What am I saying?!  I'd LOVE to break it to him! =D  I must find his profile and inform him of this! =D

Not really.  I have more important things to do that troll a dudebro who equates his sexuality with the number of times he's been laid.

[Patches]

I hate to break it to him, but I'm willing to bet that most women have had at least one kiss (outside of family) by the time they're out of high school.

I feel kind of dirty that I'm 31 and I actually do fall into his definition of kiss-virgin.

Guys like him are part of the reason I've remained this way.

[PosthumanHeresy]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

[Meshakhad]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

I can understand wanting your first time to be with a virgin. Sharing all that discovery is a wonderful thing. And I speak from personal experience. But I'm not sure why people who themselves have sexual experience insist that their partners must be virgins.

[Valerius]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

I can understand wanting your first time to be with a virgin. Sharing all that discovery is a wonderful thing. And I speak from personal experience. But I'm not sure why people who themselves have sexual experience insist that their partners must be virgins.

Because they're insecure and find the idea of sexually experienced women intimidating? That would be my guess.

[PosthumanHeresy]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

I can understand wanting your first time to be with a virgin. Sharing all that discovery is a wonderful thing. And I speak from personal experience. But I'm not sure why people who themselves have sexual experience insist that their partners must be virgins.

Yeah, I get that logic. I'm apathetic about it (me and my gf are virgins, but I don't care if my first time is with one, and the main two reasons we haven't ended that is time and her physical contact fears), but yeah, seems logical.

[Witchyjoshy]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

Because women are objects and not people and "new cars are always better than used cards."

(That being said I wonder how they'd react to cultures where it's a requirement that the woman is NOT a virgin before she can get married -- sometimes she even has to have a child first, with the child going to another person to be raised)

[gomer21xx]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

Some might argue tightness.

But, having had both virgins and non-virgins in my time, I call bullshit on that argument.  There wasn't a major difference of tightness between having sex with a virgin and sex with a mother of three.

[PosthumanHeresy]

Why does everyone want virgins? That confuses me.

Because women are objects and not people and "new cars are always better than used cards."

(That being said I wonder how they'd react to cultures where it's a requirement that the woman is NOT a virgin before she can get married -- sometimes she even has to have a child first, with the child going to another person to be raised)

Yeah, well, a pencil sharpener that sharpens a million pencils is a good sharpener. A pencil that's been in a million sharpeners is a useless nub.

[SpaceProg]

Were I ever to have sex, I think I'd prefer my partner to be experienced.  I sure as hell wouldn't know what I was doing.