"Feminists, why aren't you crying out against male domestic abuse?"* is the equivalent of "I know you're a fishing website, but what white wine would you choose to go with this Wagyu beef?" or "Why don't Native American activists ever talk about antiziganism?" Sure, male domestic abuse is an issue, but going up to a group whose mission statement is not to fight the problem you're upset about and whining that they don't fight the problem they don't fight because they're too busy fighting the problem they actually fight... is just fucking asinine when you could just be fighting the problem yourself.
* which is a nonsense question anyway since, outside fringe radfems, I've seen feminists treat male domestic abuse with nothing but contempt