Actually, once you give someone the picture it becomes their property to do with as they please unless there are laws written against it. I found that out when I was afraid my ex would post videos he had of me. Ohio has no laws in place to prevent revenge porn.
Seriously? Weird. Yeah, I'd never do that, even if I was pissed at an ex. Then again, I have a high threshold for forgiveness, so I have no idea how anyone could ever be that angry.
I prefer to express my extreme hatred for my one, and hopefully only, ex with an icy hate that only barely begins to so much as acknowledge her existence as anything more than a bad memory. What she did fucked me up so bad that I, at one point, actually considered having myself institutionalized. One good thing about not being a Christian: I'm not forced by dogma or guilt to forgive truly heinous things people do to me and the ones I love. I do not like her, I do not forgive her, and I highly doubt I'll forget it. It was the worst eight months of my life, and I owe it all to one little lady. Sorry, baby, but I got someone far, far better now. SUCK IT, BITCH.
Okay, rant over. Aah, I feel better.
i share the sentiment, and you're not the only one with a psycho ex. i look back to this and remember how i found the most comprehending psychiatrist ever. real nice guy, truly proffessionnal. helped me by giving tools to fight chronic depression without resorting to chemical crutches, real supportive, even didn't write it in my medical history so i could do martial arts or go to the shooting range (at my request, but since his evaluation stated word-for-word that i was not dangerous to me or society, it was just as he called it).
i don't want to remember the bad times, but as a veteran of a psycho ex, yeah, i feel for you too. i'm sure i'm not the only one.
I wouldn't call her psycho, per se. Oh yeah, she had problems...quite a few of 'em, including staying with her now-ex simply because she "couldn't live without sex." Yes, she stayed in a relationship where they fought about
doing the fucking dishes because she wanted cock. Pathetic. What she was was not psycho, but heartless.
I don't mind trashing her in text, hell its downright cathartic. But, I never drop names, and I'd never do something to actively destroy her life. I'll let her do that herself, she's more than capable with the incredible amount of heartlessness and sheer, crushing stupidity she had going on. Life will do a much better job than I ever could, anyway, because life really has no empathy.