Magus: It's not men, it's society (specifically US society by the sounds of things but it is across a number of societies). There isn't a group of 6 men smoking pipes which make up "the Patriarchy" - although that would be kind of cool.
As for the response to Frogman: I don't know whether I am being too cynical but it sounds like bullshit too me. Unless female on male sexual assault is far more prevalent wherever/whenever this kid grew up, neither myself nor any of my male friends or relatives have any experiences remotely comparable. The fact that was what Frogman was getting at - rather than saying male victims don't exist - and the sheer number of instances makes me suspicious. If it weren't bullshit (lying for the patriarchy - like lying for jesus) I would have expected him to say - that he has experiences like Frognman's friend and so do his friends and list them. That Frogman's lack of experience in this events is personal to him and not a product of his gender. So I am taking the post with the rather large bag of salt I carry my crackers in.