People thinking that because I'm not obviously queer, it's okay to make gay jokes around me/use "that's so gay" unironically. First of all, the fact that I'm not overly butch/flaming/in a same-sex relationship does not mean I'm not queer, it means I'm choosing to express myself in a subdued way. Second, even if I was heteronormative, I'd still call somebody out on it because if somebody pulls that shit, they are a douche and I enough douchebaggery in my life without that.