Trigger warning: Intersectional thinking
There's more than one type of gay porn. Gay4Pay does emulate the the man on woman role but it does it very different way from what the OP thinks. Also she apparently doesn't understand the concept of flip fucking wherein we take turn pleasuring each other. And even at that not all gay porn even have anal penetration. When gay porn is problematic, it's problematic to us and generally because of classist (many gay men cannot find work and resort to porn) and racist reasons (racist caricature within gay porn). But radfems can never wrong men of color, amirite
Also, my boner disagrees with the idea that I'm not actually sexually attracted to men. Homosocial bonding is a straight male phenomenon. There are some gay men who do engage in that and they are generally those trying to be straight acting. When gay men seek other gay men, we do so because we seek people with similar experiences and understanding. We want to be with people who know what it's like to be scorned for our sexuality, to take these abuses at our developmental ages. We want to be safe, which is also why gay men hang out with lesbians and trans folk (bitch probably believe trans folks are out to ruin women but what ever). AND we existed in societies that doesn't have this Western Patriarchy. What is it with radfems and their inability to think outside of their cultural box? Also pray tell are these radfems gleeful when they see queer men of colored murdered in the streets? Are they gleeful when pictures of mangled gay faces end up on the news? Because siding with the homophobic men by calling us greedy seems to suggest that.
If you have sex with other women simply as a choice, that's fine. I'm not one to denigrate choice either. But don't assume other women choose to do the same. Erasing the ranges of female sexuality, erasing the struggles that comes with it is not how liberation works. As a feminist friend of my said to a bigot (paraphrasing) "The fact that I still see men as sexual and romantic partners despite the fact that men have harmed me through my life, speaks volumes about the innateness of sexuality among humans".