I got an unsolicited mini-lecture from my boss about the dangers of smoking. Now, before anyone restarts that particular flame war, I would like to point out that 1) I wasn't smoking in front of him, my cigarettes fell out of my pocket, 2) he held on to them the whole time he was lecturing me (basically holding them hostage), and 3) ignored repeated polite requests to give them back, all while 4) talking to me like I'm a "little lady" who's too silly to know what she wants. Whether you agree with my (or anyone else's) decision to smoke, he was way out of line.