There are so many racist and trans hating gay and lesbian folk in my generation...that I just don't start convos on those topics anymore when I'm around them. When you hear, "Trannies are just too closet-y and timid to come out as gay, is what it is!" more than once, you get ulcers and tongue bite wounds from restraining the murderous outrage reflex. For the less common, "Black dick/cunt just makes me sick at the thought of it!" ilk, I have in fact slapped someone in the face, really hard. That was back in Atlanta, I was young and strong, and the fuckwit was asking for it by saying that and worse, over and over to me at a bar. So, I snapped & slapped him so hard he fell off his stool and landed on his tailbone..."broken asshole". I was 86'd, but nobody blamed me for losing my temper, at least.