*so totally snipped*
I'm pretty sure the problem is when you don't just call to attention someone's personality, but also what they are. That's the problem. You can call someone a bigot without bringing in their ethnicity or religion or genitals.
Also what you described isn't a trigger in the sense that it is usually used and with which people are referring when they say they're triggered. What you described is what is experienced by a good portion of the population to the point where calling yourself triggered loses just as much meaning as someone saying they were triggered by the oak tree outside.
i find that it drives the point home to make a distinction: a girl who's an ass is making girls look bad, same a a christian bigot makes normal christians look bad, both by association. ie, it's not racist/misogynist/what have you-ist, but it's to add the sting that you represent more than just yourself. by that, i mean that in this day and age, a buffoon has way more publicity than a run-of-the-mill citizen due to the advent of the web 2.0 and 3.0 (social media, even fstdt, in a way), and so the vocal minority paints the silent majority in the with the same brush. today, stereotypes are created by lone individuals. one look through the "worst of social justice" thread is enough for me to say that political correctness has gone mad, even after i read the "best of" thread. it took me a while to remember that for every bigot posted on fstdt, there was perhaps 50 regular devout people trying to have a nice day without ruining someone else's. i try to keep in mind to always be the best i possibly can be, because i'm a long-haired white male, as well as a metalhead. as part of a stigmatized counter-culture, i'll behave the most agreably possible to fight the damage to our respectability done by the likes of varg vikernes, or other ignoble persons whose acts speak volumes, yet paint us all with the same brush because apparently "metal=OMG satanist!" even in 2013. my actions make the rest of my peers look good or bad. i fight idiocy and bigotry one good deed at a time.
regarding triggers i'd be interested to know of your definition, because from what i gleaned in a psychology seminar on ptsd (my condition), triggers could send you into a state of rage, despair, panic, or terror.
ye olde wikipedia barely outlines what a trigger is, let alone the manifestations, so could you please help me out? i'd appreciate it

but yeah, really wasn't trying to offend.
hell, for all you know, that oak tree is a trigger for that kid whose dad hung himself from an oak tree... triggers can be anything and everything, apparently