What an entitled, vicious little brat. 22 years old and he's complaining about being a virgin?
Of course, blame can be metted out by the bucketfuls. To his parents for not squashing his entitled bullshit. To society for teaching them and him that male virginity is evil. To the MRA movement for teaching him that he was a "nice guy" despite all evidence to the contrary.
Of course, blame goes primarily to him and his egotistical ass.
He's dead now. Died in a shootout. Which means someone killed him in self-defense and/or the defense of others. As such, I can't even find a single ounce of remorse in my heart for this guy. The world is now a better place for his death. Still, I won't begrudge his parents their grief.