I have trouble feeling any sympathy for him at all. He didn't have the guts to ask a girl that he liked out but had enough to buy weapons and start attacking people. He was a self inolved little shit. What's iteresting is that he didn't get along with men or women. The lack of ability to make friends meant that he lacked the ability to get girlfriends too.
As for being told you are 'too nice', I'm sorry that means one of two things either that you are boring and the person is feeling sorry for you and doesn't want to be harsh or that the person is fucked up with daddy issues.
We've all known those people who try too hard to be liked (quite inventively we called them 'try-hards') the reason they put you off, apart from the innate insincerity you feel given their propensity to try and pleasure, is that by agreeing with everything they don't have any opinions and provide no challenge. They become boring.
Yeaaaah...sorry, Sirius, I'm not sympathizing with this fucker at all. He couldn't get his dick wet because he was, quite likely, a creepy prick and decided that, since he didn't get what he was so
clearly owed because he had a penis and didn't beat women on sight, that he'd...well,
shoot women on sight.
Yes, he had some serious fucking problems, but in the end, he just couldn't own up to potentially having...A FLAW! He's like my fuckhead cousin that knowingly infected his (now ex-)wife and their child with multiple STDs because he's a god damned sociopath with a massive superiority complex.
What he (both this fucker and my cousin) was both monstrous and unforgivable. I understand why he did it, but I will never sympathize with him. Outside him going to prison, what happened was the closest the victims will get to proper justice.