What a coincidence! I fucking hate when people say "don't give in to hate" when people who are societally treated like shit dare express
any amount of anger or disdain that exceeds the Arbitrary Privileged Group Standard, as if they really give a shit about their mental health! I also hate it when it's done when they fail to be perfectly nice and infinitely patient towards ignorant members of the groups that perpetuate the aforementioned shit treatment! Or sacrifice their time and labour to painstakingly give people fucking 101's! I really fucking hate the false equivalency between human anger and """""giving in to hate"""""!
Then again, this is from the "the Down With Cis meme is a hate crime" guy, so why the fuck do I even bother.
And I fucking hate the false dichotomy between "don't get upset" and "give in to hate."
I agree. But the problem is that marginalized people are constantly being told that any level of unhappiness equates giving into hate.
THANK you.