Would anyone agree with the notion that Inceldom isn't actually about sex?
I say this because no matter how much you tell these guys that they look normal, or how much advice you give them they turn it down, call you a cuck or "normie." They have an irrational hatred towards women, and seem to admire Chad.
If you're an incel than you deserve misery and you're an awful terrible person, if you're married with kids than you're a cuck normie and you deserve the misery of having your wife cheat on you.
The only person they look up to is someone who is free to be an asshole misogynist. The "Chad." A person who is almost deified as the supreme male who can do and say what ever he wants to women with out any repercussion. Because it's all about being mad at women that they can't treat them like a blow up doll.
It would seem that Incels, MRAs, MGTOWs, Pick up artist and nice guys are all reacting to the new outspoken fourth wave feminism movement. Women don't want to be treated as sex objects, they want equal pay for equal work, Hey were gamers too!, they're sick of being victim blamed and cat called on the street.
Any example of these things are met with extreme vitriol from right wing figureheads, any failed example is met with a "told you so, all women are like that." Equality can feel like oppression to the privileged. I don't think these lonely boys are mad that they're not getting sex.
I think they're mad that they can't abuse the system anymore. So they create these safe spaces where they can go spew ugly disgusting misogynistic bullshit to each other and beat each other down in some sort of digital self harm.
It's a neo-reactionary movement to people standing up and asking for equal treatment.